How to be a prisoner of hope.


“You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore.”  ― William Faulkner

There are times in life where we  are truly lost and very discouraged. Why is that ? Maybe we are waiting for something for a long time but it refused to come. Maybe we are in deep debt or it is something else that seems to steal our joy and hope. The reason why I am writing this article is that most of us seem to be overwelmed by our problems so that if we don’t pay any attention, these problems tend to steal our passion and enthousiam.

The power of hope is so strong and powerful that if we allow it or we use it, it can help us to keep going forward although we are in trouble and  in deep problems.  We always give up too soon because the kingdom we are looking for, seems too far. But if only we can wait for another few days, if only we can keep our hope for a few minutes again, the breakthrough we are looking for is probably in just a corner and it is waiting for us.

When I look in my personnal life, I noticed that the battle is very hard and sometimes very difficult to bear when I am so closed to the victory.

Why the battle is hard and very bitter? It is because our adversary want us to give up the battle and loose all the effort that we have done. When we put on the light of hope we can find the energy and power to persue our fight for a better life.

The power of hope is to keep us going joyfully when everything said that the battle is over. The power of hope is to keep us going with energy when nothing at all support us in the  natural. The power of hope is that force that support you when all the circumstances look gloomy and ugly.

It  will be very easy to live if everything is going in our way, no problems with that. The truth is that life is not always fair. We have to live in life in the middle of unfair circumstances. Sometimes difficulties and setbacks become the normal way of our life because too many years have passed and we are still waiting for the breakthrough. When we are in such situations  we have to constantly remind to ourself that this too shall pass and that there is a reward for us if we can be faithfull to the end.

We have to be aware of the forces of our opponents and  strongly fight to keep our hope in the highest level possible even if the external circumstances are saying the contrary. The reason why most people fail to hope is that they let their fears talk to them or they focus on how big their challenges are.

Fear is a big liar and a deceiver. When we listen to its voice it will show us all the impossible scenarios and all the reasons why we have to give up and why we have to take a break.

Fear doesn’t look at beyond the problem, it only consider the circumstances  and  quickly conclude that there is no victory or solution for this problem.

We have to know that fear is a nagative emotion, fear tends to drive us straight where our adversary want us to land. That land is a land where we give up our dream. That land is a land where we destroy our future. That land is a land where we settle for less we can be. That land is  the land where we have no more passion for life, we just let our circumstances to shape our life instead of shaping our life.

When we are talking about hope, it means that we are seing something that has nothing to do with our current reality. We only see it in our mind. Most people want to see something before they believe it. If you have to see it before you believe it, that means that it will be very hard for you to hope for something. You cannot hope for something that you can touch and see with your eyes.

With hope, you see it first in your mind and after that you see it in your real word. That is how it functions. It does not matter how things are looking in your real word today. The real world may be absolutely the opposite of what you are looking for. That does not mean  that it will not change. It is possible to change and it can change in your favor even though everything right now in your life say the contrary. Just keep your hope in the highest level possible.

Our mind is the creator of our life and we are constantly in a creation mode. That is why those who teach the law of attraction teach people to always be positive because our mind always attract to us the people, the circumstances that are in harmony with our dominant thoughts and I believe that it is true.

Today may be a very  bad day because you lose your job, Today may be bitter because your medical report is bad, Today may be very hard because your marriage is boring and painful. Today may be tough because you have a bad habit that you truly want to break. Today may be very bitter because you are in debt and poor. Today may be a bad day because for some reasons  you don’t like your job but you can’t afford to quit. Today may be a boring day because you are single and you are still waiting for your life’s companion. Today may be a sad day because you want to start a business but you fail, you don’t have what you need to start it. Time may pass, even years may pass and everything may look the same or even going from bad to worse. Yes, everything may fall apart in your life right now. Tomorrow may be the day where everything fall into place because you refuse to loose your faith for a better life, because you choose to keep your hope up in the middle of  the battle.

Why some people who were struck with sickness such as cancer,  manage to overcome that sickness and recover their health and vitality again ? Sometimes the doctors even predict their death in just a few days?  I think it is because they constantly fill up their attitude with hope of beeing healed. They have all the reasons in front of them to give up. They can normaly choose to stay in fears and nobody will blame them  for that since they are sick and there is no solution for their sickness. But they didn’t do that, they choose to hope against hope. And that is what make a great difference. They get healed while everything say that they will surely die.

Why is that some people who were once deeply in debt or who lost millions of dollars manage to not only pay their debt, earn again the money they lost but manage to become  wealthier than  they have not even thought to be ? It is because they fill up their mind with hope. While nothing support them, they choose to believe that : ‘’being rich and prosper is possible even if today I poor and in debt.’’

We constantly heard testimonies like the ones I mentioned earlier and we see that some people show us that we are more powerful than all our problems and challenges. These people show us that we can truly rise above our ennemies and adversaries.

Those heroes who succeed to defeat the giants have something in common. The only things they have in common is that they have a strong faith. They accept to hope for a breakthrough while nothing in the natural support them. They refuse to focus their eyes on the environment of their current life. They refuse to listen to the voice of their fears. They refuse to settle for what their current problems want them to be. Instead they believe that the battle is not over until God or the Creator of the universe said that it is over. They constanly focus on what they want not on their current problems.

Our attitude plays a great role in whether we will defeat our problems or our problems will defeat us. That is why we have to constantly make sure that in the middle of our setbacks and challenges, our hope  for a breakthrough and victory is up. That doesn’t have to do anything about what we feel or what we see right now.

It is very hard to keep our hope up in the middle of the storms of life. It is tough to believe for a breakthrough while you see the same opponent in your way for so long. It is not easy to continue a race when you don’t know when it will end and how many times you may be knocked down by your adversary. The truth is that victory is possibly as long as you run the race with hope as your driver. Nothing can stand against a person who fights his challenges with hope and a never say die attitude. Victotry is sur, make up your mind that you will keep hoping and hoping. Fight for your dream, fight for your right and don’t give up.

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Three ultimate ways to thrive in though time.


“Rethink Your Success Mindset: Times are getting tougher. We need tougher mindsets to ensure that we go beyond survive to thrive.” Tony Dovale

 Whether we want it or not, there are probably some moment in our life where we are down and negative because our financial statement is  not good or because our medical report is bad. Maybe we want to start a business but every effort fails and we are wondering jf one day we will be able to get out of this problem. Deep down, we all have a dream and something that is very important to us that we want to achieve. We have tried and failed, we have tried and failed and afterwards we settled for a mediocre life. Situations  like  these come to  all of us sometimes and they tend to steal our joy and the better future that is waiting for us. If we are in these situations here are my three ways to solve that problem.

Take contrôle of your mind

Why taking control of your mind ?  Because when we are in difficult situations our mind start to talk to us and most of the time what they say to us is this : ‘’there is no ways to come out of this problem,’’ things will go from bad to worse’’ Look, that is 4 years now that you are dealing with the same problem without any victory, if there is a solution you should already find it.’’ Look nobody care about you ‘’ Look how ugly you are, who will marry you ?’’ ‘’Look at the economy, everything is bad.’’ ‘’ You are done and finished’’.’’ Please, give up’’ ‘’ ‘’Nothing is good in you’’…etc.

When we are in difficult situations our mind is often bombarded us with thinking and thoughts process like the ones I mentioned ealiier .  That is why the number one thing to do when you are in tough time is to take control of your mind and your thinking process. How do you do that ?

There are many ways to take contrôle of our mind, I cannot cover all of them in this post. In this article I will simply say some of them, the ones I used to apply when I am down and negative.

#1 feed your mind, nourrish your soul.

We are what we eat, what we watch, what we read, what we listen to. So to feed our mind, we have to read a book that solely objective is to lift up our soul and mind. Today there are too many books on the topic of success, positive thinking, biography of random people like you and me who have gone through unbelievable suffering but find a way to triumph over them. There are great books there like the Bible that contain many inspirational stories for anybody who is looking for comfort, hope, a new beginning and  a new life.

So your job is to search for the life changing books that you can read so that your mind will be strong and powerful while you are dealing with  your problems.

We live in a world where it is easy to get distracted because there are too many noises and confusions and if we don’t make any effort to set at least one hour in a day to read something that can challenge us, something that can push us to hope for a better future, we will quickly neglect it and waste our time in front of TV or newspapers.

#2 Listen to tapes that can charpen your mind.

If you don’t want to read a book, you can listen to the audio format of the book. Today, most books are in audio version. Why not buy one or if you are broke, there are plenty of free version of positive audio books on internet that you can download and listen to whatever device you have. I think that there is no excuse for you. Go and find something positive and listen to it while you are in your car or while you are waiting for your turn in the mall. Listen and enjoy your life. A good place to find free positive audio book is youtube. Go there and listen to something that can build and nourrish your soul.

#3 Watch movies or videos that can uplift your soul.

Like I said, we are the result of what we watch, you can watch a movie or a documentary with the sole purpose to uplift your soul not for the sake of being entertained but because you want to feed your inner soul. Where can you find videos or movies that can build your soul and mind ? Search online, go on youtube first, there are plenty of documentaries there that can build your faith and sharpen your mind so that you will be ready to solve your problems. There are  plenty of recorded seminars run by top motivators and gurus. They are free. You just go there and search and you will find what you are looking for. Please don’t waste your time on stupid videos that talk about celebrities or news. That will not help you to move your life to the next level. Stick to what can help you to grow, to become what you what to be. Please, watch them and apply the principles and the lessons you learn there.

Find a role model

What do I mean by role model ? Role model is someone that you admire and you want to model him because you know that he is a living example of breakthrough. You know his story, you know that he went through many difficulties maybe similar to yours but he breakthrough them, he triumph over them. Today he is living the kind of life that you want to live.  You chose him as a role model because he had many things to teach you. You learn from him . The good thing about having a role model is that they challenge us to become more than we are today. We need that kind of challenge.

Most of the problems we have in life are like trying to move a mountain. We don’t find any way in the natural. They seem insurmountable in the physical arena. So if we don’t have a strong determination and commitment, we can give up easily and settle for a mediocre life.

The role modle is there to remind us that there is always a way even if everything look impossible in the natural why because he is a testimony and he has been there before us .

It is always good to know that we are not alone in what is going wrong and bad in our life. There are people who have been there and triumph over it and if they can get victory, so do we.

When we have a role mode, we have to ask ourself what did they do to win over the challenge that they had ?  How can I do the same things ? We can learn their secret if we analyze their life through their books or maybe we have the opportunity to talk to them on phone, online or maybe we talk to them in tête-à-tête. Learn from them and decide to use in your own life what you have learned from them.

Take massive actions, remain in actions, persist in actions until you get victory.

You  read plenty of books that nourrish your mind. You listen to podcast or audio tape that feed your soul. You have the chance to meet your role model and watch plenty of videos and movies that challenge you to go higher in your life or to do everything possible to shine in this dark world. Now what ? Take massive actions, apply and apply again and again what you learn. You know it is easy and cheap to learn and we can even kid ourself by reading books after books or going from seminars to seminars whether it is online or offline but the main thing that will help to have a result is  taking massive actions. Why do we waste our time to learn something and after all we don’t act up what we have learned ? Most people like to learn things that can change their life, they find them but they often fail to apply them.  If we don’t take a lot of actions, remain in massive actions nothing will change in our life.

 We have to discipline ourself and have the power to push ourself into action after we have learned new things. Right after we have finished to learn some news lessons that can help us to solve our problems, we should ask ourself : how can apply to my problems what I have learned ? When should I start to use this new tool, ? The answer should be today and  rigth now because ‘’I am impatient to triumph over my problems.’’

It is good to learn but it is better to take actions after actions and remain in actions until we get victory over our challenges. Here is my formula to taking actions. One hour of learning and 10 hours to applying the principles and lessons learned. Before learning a new lesson whether it is through a book or whatever, ask yourself : ‘am I ready to use the lessons that I  am about to learn ?’ If your answer is yes, you can spend your time and learn the lessons but if the answer is no, you better go to a restaurant or whatch your TV show.

We always hear this : ‘’knowledge is useless it had been applied and used’’. Some people say ‘knowledge is power’, that is wrong, only applied knowledge can set you free from your problems, please wake up.

Ok, that being said, take actions, take actions  take actions and remember this “There is no adversity that cannot bear a gift’’ Mollie Marti

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How to successfully pass the test of faith


“Did you hear about the rose that grew from a crack in the concrete? Proving nature’s laws wrong, it learned to walk without having feet. Funny, it seems to by keeping it’s dreams; it learned to breathe fresh air. Long live the rose that grew from concrete when no one else even cared.”

 Tupac Shakur, The Rose That Grew from Concret

What will our life be without a dream ? Without something that we cannot do by our own power ? To enjoy our life, we need faith, but the problem with faith is that it is not something that  we can  acquire without pain and endurance. In the road of our life there will surely be many things that will test our faith, our determination, our willing to take our life to a new and high level. How we react in front of these obstacles says a lot about us. How we react shows if we want to really enjoy our life or we just want a good life without paying any price at all.

This little article can help you to pass joyfully  any kind of tests you will find in the road of your faith.

Wanting a better life by having dreams and goals means that we should first qualify for the type of life we want or we should first qualify for the dream we want to achieve. Most of the time, there is a very large gap between us and the type of life we want to live.  As soon as we set a goal, what happen ? Obstacles show up. How do we react in front of these obstacles ? Are we upset ? Do we lose our cool ? Do we start complaining or blaming these obstacles ? What is our attitude toward these obstacles ?

We should understand that these obstacles are not there to defeat us or to make our life bitter. We have to understand that these obstacles are not there by chance in our life, it is probably because we need them that they come our way. We should understand that if they are on our road it is because they want to do something in our life. Now how do we react ?  Are we ready to let them work in our life ? Do we let the obstacles make a useful transformation on us or do refuse ?  Do we undrestand that we need those obstcles in our life if not they will not come our way ? Or do we strongly curse these obstacles ? Obstacles are there to help us to refine our personality in order to become a new person, the type of person needed for achieving the dreams of our life.  It is not a coincidence if we  end up where we are now. It is not a coincidence that maybe we get stuck in a traffic jam, maybe we need it and it may have a purpose in our life in this moment. Do we fight it ? Or do we go with the flow ? It all depends on how we react.

It not a coincidence that although you do all the excellent job, your boss is always rude and hard with you. That unfair situation has surely something good for you if you can handle it with peace, joy and respect instead of fighting it.

It is not a coincidence that although you are respectful and very kind to your spouse, you don’t get the credit you deserve. Surely, that hard situation had something good for you if you can handle it with peace withouth loosing your cool.

It is not a concidence that you are still struggling in your finance although you are making tremendeous efforts in order to improve your finance. How do you handle that situation ? Are you upset ? Do you loose your joy ? Do you recognize that they are there in your life for a purpose ? Or do you blame the situation and start complaining, and giving up ?

If you are working hard to start a business or to grow a business and you don’t see any real result, that is a test of your faith and you have to know that you need  it if not it will not come your way. How do you react ? Are you upset ? Do you complain ? Do you loose your cool ? Or do you embrace joyfully the challenge with a never say die attitude ?

It may be any other kinds of challenges or problems that comes your ways, somethings like an unfair bill, a broken car, your health, your kids, or you are dealing with a debt, you are jobless or you are single and you have not yet met your life’s companion…. It all about how you react, what is your attitude toward these problems. Do you let them drag you down or do you make up your attitude and knowing that you need them if not they will not come your way.

The situation is this, what I am saying is that when we are dealing with hard time and challenges, we will not deny then and wellcome then passively. What I am saying is that we should confront our challenges with peace, joy and take massive actions to solve them without any complaint.

When we face an obstacle in our life, we should ask ourself what can I learn from this situation ? Most of the time the obstacle or the problem comes and comes again for years because we don’t do anything about it. We don’t learn anything about it and we continue to deal with the same problem years after years.

We have to understand that the person that we become is more important than our dream, that is why we should let our obstacles transform us in a better person rather than a bad person.

I well know that it is painfull to do a great job without getting any credit. It is painfull to give everything to your spouse and end up with a divorce. It is painful to  give everything you have in a project and end up with a big failure. It is painful to give everything you have and end up with no compliments, no thanks.  Sometimes life is very unfair and very bitter. We are confronted to situations where is it is very difficult to be grateful.

When we are confronted to these situations we should remember that they are there for a purpose, it is not a coincidence. We can let them drag us down or we can keep our peace and joy knowing that they can make a transformation on us and refine  us or teach us something. We can also choose, like most people do, to reject the problem, to curse it, to refuse to take 100% responsibility, giving up their dream… The choice is our. Nobody can choose for us.

Life is a gift and it is a  great gift to be in life today. Your joy in life does not depend on any external thing such as a road free of traffic jam from your home to your service or vice versa. Our joy in life has nothing to do with a car. Whether we have any or not. We can still choose to be happy whether our spouse compliment us or not. We can still be happy whether we succeed to start the business or not. We can still be happy whether we have money or not…

We may not be in life tomorrow, why live this day with sorrows, worries because obstacles and problems are on our way ? What a shame it will be if we leave this world unhappy, unfulfilled because of an unfair boss, because of an unfair bill or because our dream is taking more time than we excpect or because a of a hard spouse or because we are single or because we are dealing with a very difficult financial situation !…

Let us focus our mind on what we have now and be grateful for that. I don’t know what is going on in your life right now, but I’m sure that you still have plenty of things to be grateful for. Why not focus your mind there, be grateful for those things even if they are small and insignificant. You are still alive, that is a gift. That means what bothers you today can probably turn into your favor tomorrow. Remove your mind from what you don’t have. God is a good God and he will never let us have more problems than we can handle . We are always bigger than any obstacle we can face. We can triumph over them. So keep the right attitude and know that if you stick to it, it will surely land you to where you really want to be.  Don’t let adversity drag you down and make you loose your passion for life. Like I said earlier, life is  a  gift and wonderful. Everyday you  should be excited to wake up from your bed no matter what is going on on your life now.

Wheher you get credit for your hard work or not continue to serve other people with joy, continue to give with a whole heart , continue to help with a deep love and humility. Continue to be excellent in what you do. whether you see any sign or not continue to pray God and don’t give up or setlle for a mediocre life. Always be full of hope and keep a smile in your face.

Don’t fight your obstacles, remember that there is always a price to pay for any good thing we want. You have to show first that you are qualify for what you want by being faithful and trustworthy day in and day out whether you find your way or not, whether you don’t get the credit you deserve. Let your problem refine you and be applier no matter is the hardsips you encounter on your road for a better life.

Stay stable and peacefully, the sure thing is that those problems and obstacles will suerly land you to a wonderful life, to what you really want. Why ? Because no obstacle can stand before someone who has the right attitude and who chooses to go with the flow instead of fighting anything that is not going his way.  Repeat with me these powerful phrases that I used to say to myself when I encounter any hardiships, repeat : ‘’everything serves me’’, ‘’instead of using me I use my obstacles and challenges.’’


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4 Timeless ways to stay consistency.


We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit. — Aristotle

If there is one value that can contribute to our daily improvent, I believe that it is our ability to always do what we have started with passion, with joy the first day even if we have started loosing our passion and the excitement that we had in the beginning. In order to succeed in everything that we do or to achieve our goals in life, we need to be consistency if not we will always be where we are today and there will be no progress in our life. This post gives somes tips to stay consistency in whatever we want to achieve in our life.

Discipline yourself

What is discipline ? It means force yourself to do the right thing whether you want it or not. Life will be good if every time we want to do something we are motivated to do it. But the truth is that there is a part of us who always want us to do somethings else like watching TV, movie, go to a restaurant, spend hours tchating with friends, sleep again and and again, procrastinate or seek the easy way to get the task done. There is always a part of our body who wants pleasure and comfort. What kind of life will we live if we listen to the part of our body who wants comfort and parties ? Surely, we will live a shallow and lousy life if we always get in whatever we feel.

Discipline yourself means always force yourself to stay on the right side whether you like it or not because that is where you can stay if you want everything to turn green and good for you.

Everybody wants a good relationships, but what happen ? We start well when we start dating our girlfriend, we go together to parties and we love to do plenty of things together. We are happy when we are together.  What happen a few days or a few months or one year after our marriage ? Do we still have the same pleasure, the same excitement like the one we had when we started dating our spouse ? If the answer is ‘’no’’ that means that we are not consistent in our relationships and if we didn’t fix that problem of lack of consistency on how to improve our relationships with our spouse, we will  pay the price. The price we will pay is that our marriage, instead of being exciting, will become boring and die.

Another example is this, most of us want to start a blog in order to share something with the world, that is good. The problem with starting a blog is that you should remain consitent in posting new and fresh articles to your blog. Without fresh articles in a consistent way, your blog will die and you will lose your readers. I know that even myself, I have to work on this subject of consistency because It is very hard for me to always be faithful to my commitment.

Motivate yourself

To stay consistent, we need motivation and we need something to drive us with excitement and passion towards what we want to achieve. Most of the time, we start well and we are super motivated to do something that can improve the quality of our life, but only few days after, we are no more excited, we lose our passion. Why ? because we no longer feel any pleasure in the process. What was once a pleasure and excitement is today painful and boring. Since it is painful and boring, we start procastinating and putting down our goal. All of us know that without persitent actions we cannot achieve anything in our life. So how do we stay motivated while we started losing our drive, our pleasure to be faithful to our commitment ? One of the ways we can stay motivated is to always keep in our mind the benefit that we will have if we persue to the end. Human being has the ability to know and see the end result before he has even started a project. So we can keep our vision right in our mind and see it anytime. Someone who wants a happy marriage should always keep in his mind the beautiful  picture of his wedding day and also have it somewhere where he will always see it. Seeing what you want even if it is on screen, on paper or in our imagination can motivate you to persue it with  consistency.

The best way to stay motivated is to know that you have the duty to motivate yourself. Don’t rely on TV, medias or someone else to motivate you, to keep you on track. How do you motivate yourself ? Just pick up an inspirational and motivational book and read it everyday whether your emotion is up or down. There are plenty of these kind of books free of charge on internet. Personally, what motivate me most is the testimony of ordinary people who succeed despite huge and insurmountable obstacles. You can find such testimonies in the biography of every great person such as Nelson Mandela, Jesus Christ, Henry Ford….There are plenty of success stories, just google it and you will get what you want. Read them, nurture your spirit with them and apply what you learn from them.

Chunk down into achievable short-term goal what you want

It is not one action that can lead to the success we want, it maybe the combination of 100 actions done consistently that can lead to what we want to achieve. It may be 1000 actions done with perseverence that can  help you to be a good parent or a good spouse or to built a good health or whatever your outcome is. The easy way is to define clearly one or two simple action to accomplish today and discipline yourself to do it no matter what. Maybe it is a phone call or the reading of a good book or starting a physical excercice… One or two days after, you should be clear about one or two other new actions to act on again. The point here is to continue to built upon the previous level in consistent way even if it is a tiny progress. The actions have to be consistent but the quatity of these actions may be tiny, small or large. When you add small steps and small steps every day you can go far one month later and if you continue two months after, three months after, one year… Can you imagine where you will be ? Maybe you are closer to your dream, your self-esteem grows, you are pride of yourself or you are fully living your dream.

 Think of this : ‘’if you create an act, you create a habit. If you create a habit, you create a character. If you create a character, you create a destiny.’’ — Andre Maurois

Get yourself around people who have already succeed in the area you are struggling in.

Don’t stay alone, it hard to move forward in life if you stay in an island. Hopefuly there are many communities today in every area possible whether it is in politics, in business, e-marketing, parenting, in sport, relationships between husband and wife, dating, retirement etc. When you join the community that you need, you can learn from the members of the community. Introduce yourself, ask them some questions and listen to their counsels.

The beauty of being in a group is that you can get motivated by the members of the goups, you can learn from them.

Where can you find communities to join ? There are communities online or offline. Do your researches and find if they are the type of communities you are looking for. When you make your choice,  try to know the rules of the communities and follow them. The best way to be a member of a group is to contribute. So go there with the mindseth of a giver not someone who will always take something from others. Be respectful and greatful for what you get from the community.

Don’t forget your goal that you are not in the community to chat or gossip, you are there to learn, to grow and to make progress and to give  according to the subject that the community deals with.

Think of these quotes

There must be consistency in direction.

— W. Edwards Deming

Life is often compared to a marathon, but I think it is more like being a sprinter; long stretches of hard work punctuated by brief moments in which we are given the opportunity to perform at our best.

— Michael Johnson

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Life journey is full of many contradictions and things that we cannot understand and explain. You work hard, you do your best at work but you don’t get the promotion. You do all your best to start a business but you don’t get the fund you are looking for to start the business. You do everything to your spouse but the marriage breake down. You always help other when they are in need but when your turn comes, nobody cares about your problem. Ten years or twenty years have passed but you did not get the breakthrough, your prayer did not get the answer you are looking for. Around you, you even see  mediocre  people who are blessed and posess things that you want to own  for a long time. You work very hard, you take all the classes, but you don’t  get the results you are looking for….These kind of situations happen  for every person in their journey for a better life. The problem is that when we go through situations like these, we can become deeply disappointed, deeply frustrated, discouraged about life. We can completly loose our joy and even settle for less and deep bitterness for the rest of our life.

If somebody is going through a deep frustration, my objectif through this post is to bring back joy, faith and hope in the heart of the reader. Here are some practical solutions.


Like I say in the beginning of this article, life is full of many contradictions that can steal our joy and our dream. While we are going through circumstances that are frustrating us our attitude toward this sad situation can make a difference. Our attitude is how we handle the situation ? Do we camplain ? Are we angry ? Are we tempted to give up ? Are we jealous ? Honestly, most people are bitter and they weep when things are not going their way in life. I understand them. It is good to weep, to cry when we are going through hardship. But for how long do we weep and cry ? After weeping, we have to get up again and start with more zeal the race for a better life.

In the journey of life we cannot win if we have a weak attitude. We have to have a warrior mentality. When things go hard, that is the best moment to sharpen your mind and fight the good fight for a better futur and a good fight for a better life.

Your attitude is very important because if you fail to have a better attitude your ennemy or the problem that you have can use it against you. No matter how diffilcult, how long the bad situation is, you have to keep a good attitude. When the wind blows in a sea, what determines  if the boat will land safely or not is how the sail is set. If the sail is set well, no problems for the people in the boat but if the sail is bad, the people in the boat are in danger because the wind will break down the boat. Likewise, keeping a good attitude while you are in the storm of life  can help you to land safely.

Your attitude must be stong, your attitude must be full of determination, your attitude must be full of zeal to continue the fight even though you get knock down too many times.


We cannot explain and understand why although we have done our best we did not qualify for the loan of our dream house. We cannot undertand why our spouse leaves us although we are doing our best to have a better relationships. We cannot explain and understand why we are still single although we are doing our best to have a mate. Why is my financial situation did not change although I am doing my best to improve my finance ? Why is my health is poor although I am doing my best to have a good health ? Why is this ? why is that ? The moment you keep asking yourself these questions you will become down and sad. There are plenty of things in life that we cannot explain and the best attitude to have toward these things is to trust the Infinite Intelligence that what is going wrong in our life today, if we keep the good attitude, will absolutely work for our good not to destroy us.

Intead of focussing on the ‘’why’’ and trying to find an explanation or a reason, trust more and be aware that at the end if you did not give up, you  will have the last laugh.


In your road to victory and total blessings, your adversary will laugh and makes life bitter for you if you start loosing energy because the fight is taking long than you think. If you start looking for your plan B and start playing the game in a wishy-washy way, that is how your ennemy will keep you in his trap.

The truth is that when the battle for a better life or the tremendous efforts we  have made to achieve a dream fall appart, the temptation to settle for mediocre life or to bend our standards to the standards of average people is high. We can esealy find excuses since we have tried and tried but failed.

Don’t do that . No matter how hard you fail, if you don’t  get your way, keep saying to yourself : « I did not come here to give up my dream »  When the battle is tough your inner resources must be tough as well. Making some excuses will weaken your energy and you won’t have the power to continue to persue your dream.


When things are not going in your ways despite all of your efforts and in the same time other people with less efforts or even no efforts at all are enjoying the things you want, I do understand that that it will be very painful, but you have to know that there is a reason for that. The journey for a better life or the achieving of any significant dream is full of tests after tests. Most of the times people who achieve more that the average people, pass unbelievable tests that can deeply beat or even kill the average people. That is why we call these great achievers, heroes.

You have to prove that you will be content and do your best even things are not going in your way. You have to prove that you will keep giving even though you are not receving, You have to prove that you will keep honoring people even though they treat you bad. You have to prove that you will keep your faith higher even though you are working and praying for many years and you don’t see anything in the external word.

Maybe it is probably the time for you to grow and develop a strong character. There are many things in life that we cannot learn through a class, a book… but only through a personal experience so that at the end you develop a spiritual masso. You cannot be strong if you are not put under pressure. You may not like it but  if you stick with it, it will work for you. You are growing, you are becoming a mature person, you are becoming more applier, you are getting prepared for high responsibilities. You cannot get promoted without any preparation. If you get what you want or achieve your dream without any preparation, the things you get will be a burden and a heavy load for you, not a blessing. It will not help you, it will hurt you.

Your gift and talent can take you to a certain level of your life, but if you don’t have the required character for that gift, you will not stay there for a long time. Character is developped through tough time when we are not getting our way but we keep doing the best things.

 Even if you are doing your best to earn more money and you did not see anything yet, even if it is a long time you are single and your efforts did not pay yet… Don’t get bitter, don’t give up. Your situation is not changing yet but you, you are changing, you are becoming a better person, you are growing, you are getting prepared for new level of your destiny.

It is easy to say that we have faith when things are going in our way. But  what happen  when we do our  best and still have to wait for the things we want ? Do we loose our faith ? Can we continue to trust God ? Our character and the person we are becoming while pursuing a dream are more important than the dream or the things we want.

Remember there are too many contradictions in life and the journey for a better life is sometimes bitter. Everyone has his share of frustrations and things that we cannot undersdand. you have to make up your mind that you are not going to let these things steal your joy, your happiness, your dream, your hope. Do what you can and trust God for the rest. Leave with this attitude: ’’even if my situation does not change, I am still going to be happy,’’ ‘’ even if I see somebody with more talent and things I want, I will not be envious or jealous,’’ ‘’If my spouse does not change, I will continue to treat her or him well, and I will be happy.’’ ‘’I will always leave in peace with myself ’’. If you continue to do that you will be like the forces of nature, you will be unstoppable and you will probably get all the things you want sooner or later.  Can you do that ?


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 ‘’The good things I want to do, I fail to do it but the bad things I don’t want to do, that is what I do’’ Apostle Paul. Every honest person can relate that thought of Apostle Paul to himself. That shows how hard and painful it is to do good things in life.

What we practice everyday becomes a habit and when a habit is formed it becomes our character and our character detimines our destiny. Whether what we are doing over and over is good or bad, the bottom line is that it will end up in a place where we are strong, powerful or a place where we are destroyed. What we do everyday is very important since it determines where we will  end up in life. We have heard that we reap what we sow. This post will help us to develop good habits and to destroy the ones that pull us down or break us.

1 Self honesty

First of all we have to be honest with ourselves to truly recognize that something is wrong in our life and to truly commit to change the habit that is bad in our life. There is one thing to look at the mirror and see the areas that need adjustment in our body and to take action to correct them and another thing is to look at the mirror, see what are bad in our body and refuse to correct them and when we will go out, everybody will see how we neglect to take care of our body.

It is said that we can be set free if we know the truth and apply it. We have to ask ourself on regular basis « what is holding me back in my life ? » « In which area of my life do I need to improve myself in ? »  There is no shame to regonize that there is something that is wrong in our life. As I said in the opening of this post every person finds that it is difficult to do good things and sometimes we settle for mediocrity without even knowing it and little by little it becomes a habit. So every human struggles to do good things but every human can work hard to acquire good habits so that it can become part of his  nature. When we know who we are, we can then take the next steps to break our bad habits


« Decide » means to cut every possibility to return back again. « Decide » means that you will no longer look back again. Let say you decide to stop smoking, that means that you have cut all the possibilities to return back and to smoke again. If somebody gives you a cigarette, you will refuse and you, yourself you will not go to buy a cigarette anymore. I know that this can sound good while we are saying it but to put that decision into action for a long time and forever, that is the real challenge and most people while trying to avoid bad habits fail to keep their promise after the first or the second temptation. When we fail to keep our promise, that means we did not really decide to stop the bad habit that is holding us back. ‘’Decide to stop a bad habit’’ must be a ‘’must’’. You cannot quit a bad habit in a wishy-washy way. Your commitment must be strong if not you will soon return back to your bad habits.

3 Motivate yourself

When we start to avoid a bad habit, it is easy, we are full zeal and we claim everywhere that from now on we will no longer do this or that and that we are free. A few days after, like a dog that returns back to his vomiting we start, we renew again with the bad habit. What has happen ? We loose our fire, we loose our motivation and the bad habit comes back with more power over us. In order to keep our commitment, we need to continue to motivate ourselve in order to have a strong desire to break the bad habit. If you only decide to break a bad habit and you just sit down and you don’t do anything, just after a few days you will have a strong desire to return back to the bad habit. To avoid that, you have to have a ritual of motivation. What I mean is that you must motivate yourself every day, you must encourage yourself every day, you must love yourself more every day untill you well establish the new habit that you want.

How can you motivate yourself, encourage yourself while you are breaking a bad habit ? There are plenty of ways to do that. You can read the testimonies of people who have succeeded to break the bad habits you are willing to break and learn from them. If they can do it, you too can do it.  You can surround yourself with positive people and make the decision to model their behaviours in your own life. You can visualize yourself every morning, free from your current addiction. Just sit down and spend 10 minutes on your bed and see yourself free from what is holding you back. You can also repeat to yourself whether it is aloud or silently : ‘’I am free from this….(the habit that you want to break)

You can also pray. Saying a prayer is very effective when it comes to motivate yourself to break a bad habit. The easiest way to break a bad habit is to have a motivation ritual in order to support yourself while you are struggling to break a bad habit.

Breaking a bad habit is a long journey and the journey can be either sweet or bitter, it will be bitter for you if you don’t support yourself with many motivational and encouragement resources.

4 Dicipline yourself

‘’Discipline is the bridge to achievement’’ Jim Rhon. You can’t succeed to break a bondage without discipline. Set some rules for yourself and keep your commitment to obey to these rules. You have to set the standard by which you want to live your life by and not let any other rules in your life. I have said it earlier  that you cannot break a bad habit in a wishy-washy way. What do you want for your life ? The only way to get what you want for your life is to obey to the standards that command that kind of life that you want for yourself. You cannot say that you want to be a business man and live with the mindset and standard of an employee. You cannot say that you want a happy life and spend most of your time consuming the latest news on TV, without any time set for positive tapes and positive books.

You must obey first to the rules and laws that create the kind of life you want, discipline yourself.

5 Don’t give up

I know that it is not easy to break a bad habit. What happen most of the time is that you start well and then you fail. You start again and then you fail. Don’t be stopped. Our habits are too pwerful since we have been repeating them for years. Deciding to break them can be very hard, that is why most people fail to break a bad habit. We must not be stopped because we fail once or twice or even seral times. We have to be honest to ourself and make any adjustment and continue our race toward a total freedom. No matter how many times we have fail, we can keep on going on the road of total freedom.

We are created to shine in this world not to settle for bondage, addiction and slavery. Today many people are addicted to cigarette, to drogue, to sex (they watch pornography), to alcohool, they are impatient, they are addicted to fears, to anger, to procastination, over spending….

We are greater than these bad things and we should not loose our power and let these bad things control us. There is nothing in this world that can keep us in bondage whether it is a lust, drogue, cigarette, bad temper, negative thinking…no matter how long we have been in these shallow life and how many times we have tried to break these bad habits and failed. Only we, nobody else and no circumstances or situations can force us to settle for a mediocre life. We have to take a full responsibility for our thinking and our actions.  We always have the power and that power is in each one of us. We can claim that power and use it to regain our freedom and our true identity.


There are plenty of new good habits there for us, if we want to truly enjoy our live we should constantly improve ourself and set new goals every year. Our goals should be to love more, to be more patient, to become excellent or stand out in our humility, in our faith, in our job or carrier, in our generosity, in how we manage our time, in how we treat our spouse, our children, in how we spend our money…

Abundance and freedom are waiting for us, what I mean is that the harder we work on ourself, we discipline ourself, the more we will be happy, the more we will love ourself, the more joy we will have, the more we will contribute, and the more we will serve others.                                     Let’s each one of us shine in this world through our bright character.

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How to have a lasting joy and pleasure in life

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“Only those who seek within, get to discover their true unconditional happiness.”

― Edmond Mbiaka

As human being we like pleasure and we want joy, happiness and fulfilment. But what happen often ? Pleasure and joy don’t last and we feel boring and even painful after enjoying something for a while. Unfortunately, our modern society makes things harder for us when it comes to how to find pleasure and joy in life. Our society tends to associate pleasure, joy, fulfilment with car, a nice home, a good job, money in the bank or a good mate. Those people who have the chance to  experiment all these good things that life can offer can honestly say that the joy, the pleasure that come from these things does not last. Let say you pray for a car and one year after your prayer was answered, you thank God. And then you start enjoying your car. After the first month you notice that you are not excited anymore with that car. It becomes boring, maybe too expencive or it is old fashioned and very brand new cars are on the market. What happen ? What was once a joy and pleasure is now a pain. The same thing happen with other things such as money, good job, big home, new mate etc. What is the common denominator here ? The common denominator is that all these things that gave us joy and pleasure are external things. We can touch and see them.

The issue of pleasure and joy, happiness is a great challenge for all of us because we are ready to do whatever to feel good and to stay in that state forever. Here are some of my solutions for that problem.

I think that the first mistake that everybody makes while seeking pleasure, happiness and joy is to seek it outside himself. Real joy, real happiness, real fulfilment is a matter of ‘’inner person’’ not ‘’outside’’. Everybody fall in the trap of seeking pleasure outside themselves because skillful marketers have brainwashed our mind and sold to us the idea that it is by owning the latest material things on the market that we can be happy and fulfill. Surely the truth comes to us once we experiment the materials and discover that the pleasure does not last.

True pleasure or lasting joy has nothing to do with your car, your home, your money, your job, your mate… We know plenty of people who have nothing of these stuffs and who are very very happy. In the same moment we know plenty of people who have everything that most people dream to own, but these people live a pitiful life, they are in pain. What is the problem ? I think that the problem  is in the fact that we don’t know ourself. Socrates said that we have to know ourselves but most of us know more how a computer works more than they know how their psyche works.

As human being we have the ability to make painful or joyful any situation. That is what explains that some people with little are happy and joyful while other people with more are unhappy and complain about life.

When we know that we have the choice to decide what equal pleasure or pain in our life, we will live a more fulfill life since we will not let circumstances to decide wether we will be happy or not.

Pleasure, happiness and joy can be created if we know the secret to create them. If we experiment pains and discomfort it is because without even knowing it we have created that pain in our life. Let say you wake up every morning to go to your job. On your way, you start complaining about the traffic, you start complaining about your boss, you start complaining about the people with whom you work. You remember that you are earning less than you deserve ….. Everyday on your way to work that is what you think about, that is what you talk about and you do it over and over and without even knowing that  that way of going from your home to your job has become a habit, a ritual. Let me ask you, are you sure that you will be happy and joyful at your work if you start your working day like that ?

Now let say that every day when you wake up and you are on your way to your job, the traffic is hard to deal with but you drive your car patiently and you joyfully greet the other drivers. When thinking of your work, you are grateful that you have a job, you remember that your boss had given you the opportunity to work with him even though he is sometimes hard with you. You remember that one year ago, you knocked to every door and no one oppened his door for you except your current boss and you thank him for that. On your way to your work you remember how it is good to work with other people since you spent the last couple of year alone, now that you have the opportunity to work with other people around you, you are grateful and you thank God for that. While thinking of the tasks that are waiting for you, you are excited and you can’t even support the idea of abandoning your job for gosping or for rest because your job give you joy and you are happy while working.

So, that is the second situation.  Which situation can help to start the day well and to live a better day ? Surely the second day. What is interessing is that both cases come from our mind and every person has the ability to choose either the first case or the second. That is how we create our joy or our pain.

Where do we focus our mind to ? The difficult situations in life or the beauty of life ? What do we think about ? Our futur will be brighter or that things will go from bad to worse in our life. What you focus your mind on can deternine if you are happy or not.

Another secret of how we can make a lasting joy and pleasure in our life in to constantly grow and become a mature person. What I mean is that we should seriously work on ourselves and upgrade our skills on how to love people more, how to forgive more, how to trust God more, how to give more without thinking of being paid back, how to be humble more, how to be excellent in our job, how to increase our determination, how to increase our patient … We can analyze ourself and see the qualities that we lack, where we need to work and take some actions. Today we live in information age and there are plenty of free resources on each one of these qualities I cited earlier. Just go on google or youtube and you will be served.

Failing to constantly work in our inner person leads to pain and a shallow life. Most people only take care of the extern part of their life, that is where they spend their money. A big TV, a fancy car, plus a big home without a good library equal pain and misery. It does not cost much to buy a Bible (there are plenty of free Bibles) and read it. It does not cost much to buy a tape recorded by Antony Robbins or Zig Ziglar or any other motivator you choose and listen to it  in your car while going to your work. It costs too big to forget to nurture our soul, our spirit with the food that can lift up our faith, with a food that can help us to love more and to get closer to our creator, to nature.

So, you cannot leave your happiness or your joy to the chance. We don’t leave to chance our goals and hope to achieve them. Likewise if we want a lasting joy and pleasure in our life, we have to take specific actions such as knowing how to talk to ourself and what to focus our mind to, Such as knowing that the most part of our happiness is inside ourself not outside ourself.  I explained that earlier.

Commit to work hard on your inner person every day. Ok, let me ask you this question : for how  long do you want your joy and your happiness to last ? What will  you pay to feel permantely that joy and happiness that you deserve ?


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Fear keeps us focused on the past or worried about the future. If we can acknowledge our fear, we can realize that right now we are okay. Right now, today, we are still alive, and our bodies are working marvelously. Our eyes can still see the beautiful sky. Our ears can still hear the voices of our loved ones.    Thich Nhat Hanh

We are taught by every religion to have faith and to trust a High source of power that control everything. Although faith is one of the common spiritual values that comes often when it comes to cultivate spiritual values, the truth is that very few people can be called a man of faith or women of faith. When most people face an adversity they always fail to trust themselves not even that God can help them to defeat the problem they face. Why is that ? I think that the reason why most people do not practice faith is because they fall into four traps that are fatal to faith. These four traps are : fear, doubt, logic and impatience.


Fear is the direct opposite of faith and it is the number one reason why most people are defeated by their challenges and accept to live the life that they don’t want, set for less they can be. When people face a difficult situation, instead of opposing a strong faith and  a strong courage to the problem, they let themselves consumed by fears. Suppose that they were laid off from their job, they are immediately consumed by fears as they are thinking on how they will pay the bills, how they will pay the rent and what their life will be without a paycheck. That fear leads to all the nagative thinkings. All their mind is grabbed by  anxiety and they become blind in their spirit as they completly fail to see the new opportunities that their new situation can give them.

I am not trying to ask you not to feel any fear at all or to accept any difficult situation with cheer because there are opportunities behind them. We are human beings and it is good to be fearful at first when you are laid off or when you face a serious situation. What I am saying is that you have to go beyong your fear and the negative feeling after you are aware of the problem. Fear cannot solve your problem, what it does is to keep you focus on all the dark side of the problems intead of showing you the bright side of your problem. It is good to feel fearful at first when we receive a bad medical report but what happen then ? As the days are going, do we still nurture our fears by analyzing and searching for reasons of the problems we have ? Are we trying to find answers to questions like these : ‘’why we have that medical report ? How are we going to pay the doctors..? Why this ? Why that ?’’

What if litlle by little, we started to replace our fears by a strong faith and a great trust to our creator knowing that if it comes our ways it means that you can defeat it and that everything serve  you and that you can overcome any challenges small or big  ? When you start believing that you can prevail, victory is on your side, your fears start disapearing and intead of seeing the dark side of your problems, you start thinking of the solutions and all the bright side of your challenges start coming to your mind. That is why it is very important to stop feeding your fears because they keep you in a position where you fail to solve your problems. They draw out of you all your inner power to solve your difficulties. So never listen to your fears.


Faith never works with doubt. What doubt tells us is that : ‘’it is not possible and I cannot do that.’’ Why do we doubt ? Because we are looking the situation we face with our natural eyes. We cannot see it with our spirit. As human being we have the ability to see things whether with our physical eyes or our spirit eyes. But because we live in a physical world most people don’t even know that they have the ability to imagine something that is not yet and make it happen. Although all of us are enjoying the benefit ( car, internet, plane, phone,  building …)of a modern life, one of the secret of this modern life is that many visionaries have believed first in something that did not exist and they made it happen because of their faith. What would have happened if they have doubt that what they have imagined in their mind would be impossible to create ? They would not take the necessary actions to create them.

When we see a building, that means it has first existed in the mind of the owner of the building. It became real because he believed he could make it happen. If he had  some doubts like most people have, he would not be able to make that building a reality. Whether it is a business, a church, a community of volunteers for a good cause, a political party… All of them came first from imaginations, something that nobody can see except in the mind of the person who imagines the thing he want to create. What doubt does is to kill a dream, to kill a hope, to kill imaginations and to put people in situations where  they are prevented from the main tool that makes everything happen in the world. That tools is faith. Anybody who refuses to doubt and has a srong faith can move all the mountain of his life that is what the Master,Jesus said.


Faith has nothing to do with logic and common sense. When you are deeply in debt and you live by paycheck, if you use the logic part of your mind, you may conclude in paper that you will spend 20 or 30 years to pay your debt. Why ? because you have only calculated with your common sense, your reason, your logic. But what if you can imagine that you can make 10, 20 times the  money you are earning today ? It is not impossible, What if the person to whom you owe money call you one or two years later to reduce 75% of your debt ? That option is also possible, yes we see it happen in people life. What if a few years later you inherit big wealth or you get a promotion in your job ? So you have to see every situation you face with all the possibilties. Most of us have heard the stories of people who were healed from cancer although the doctors have predicted their death. We have also heared stories of people who  have lost their job, their money etc  but years later came back stronger and weathier than they were before. I think that if we want to explain these great coming backs with common sense and logic it will be hard and difficult to explain. What I want to explain here is that when we are in trouble : debt, jobless, poverty, sickness… we have to turn off the logic part of our mind and start looking for all the possibilities to solve our problems . What papers and graphics do is to analyze and show us all the impossibilities and to push us down and to focus on the dark sides of our problems instead of encouraging us to focus all our mind in all the solutions that are possible.


Impatience kills faith because patience works side by side with faith. It is hard for most people to wait today because we are taught to be in harry. But when we are in troubles we cannot fix the problems immediatly. I’m talking here of serious problem such as sickness, lack of money, deep debt, relationship problems… To fix these kind of problems you need to be patient and wait for a while. I know that it is uncomfortable to wait and that is why most people fail to solve their problems because of their impatience. For everything in life there is a set time. A pregnant woman whether it is comfortable or not shall wait 9 months before having her new baby. She does not have a choice otherwise she will lose her baby. Let say you have a broken relationships and you want to fix it. You cannot get any immidiate result because you have to wait for the time to pass by, until then you can cultivate new skills that can help you to have a better relationships.

When we start a new business, we have to wait until  it will start to grow. If we want it to grow quickly the same day or the same week, we will get ourselves in trouble. We need to wait patiently and with comfort because, it is easy to start complaining and we will start saying ‘’ two weeks ago or one month ago I am waiting and I still have the  same problem.’’  Faith has its laws and rules, it does not work with impatience and complainings. While you are doing your part of the job of solving your problems by taking massive actions be comfortable and rejoice while waiting for your breaktrough

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‘’God didn’t promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, or sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way. If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it.’’  – unknown

There are many spiritual values : love, patience, courage, faith, kindness, honesty, persistence, forgiveness, humility and so on. Among these spiritual values there is one that comes over and over in any religion, spiritual books, business books… espacially when it comes to overcome problems .  This spiritual value is ‘’faith’’. Like any  tool  well  used, faith is a powerful tool that can make life better to anybody who knows how to use it in order to get result.

When you want to use any tool, a computer for instance, you have to learn how to use it otherwise you won’t get anything from your computer even if it costs you much money to buy it. So likewise ‘’faith’’ is a tool that we can learn  to use and when we know how to use it well, we can apply what we learn in our life. Surely we will reap tremendous positive results in our life. So, how can we become a person of faith or a man or woman who uses faith as a tool in his daily life ? There are many ways to do it but I will suggest in this post 4 ways to strenghen our faith.

1 Affirmations

Affirmations are short positive phrases that we say over and over to ourselves. For instance : ‘’good things come my way’’, ‘’life is always on my side’’, ‘’I am a magnet to money ‘’. Short positive sentences like these are called affirmation or incantation. What that does ? When you say something over and over to yourself your mind start believing that what you affirm or say is true.

Our mind is the only creator of our life and it only creates what we believe is true. If you believe that you are poor your mind will create poverty for you. If you believe that you are rich, your mind will create riches for you. When we understand the power of our mind to create for us what we believe in, we will not underestimate the power of affirmation or what we say to ourself over and over whether it is unconsciously or consciously.

Know that when we say positive words to ourself, it does not necessary need to match with your current situation. Maybe you are sick, and you start saying over and over this incantation ‘’ healing and restoration come on my body.’’  The truth is that you are sick, don’t deny that, the power of your affirmation here is that you are setting your brain to look for new ways of healing and restoration of your body. You are physically sick right now but your mind is strong and sharp. What that does is that instead of leaving in fears and beeing hopeless you are full of faith and courage. The bottom line is that you can quickly find ways, whether to go and see a doctor or do something else that will heal you.

 You are jobless and broke, you repeat over and over again to yourself that ‘’opportunities are coming on my ways’’.The truth is that after saying that for over 10 to 20 minutes to yourself whether it is louder or silently for days, for months even for years, you will not necessary come out with a telephone call for a job interview or a customer who wants to pay you $1000 for your service. You have to take some actions and discipline yourself more. What the affirmation does is that your mind is geared and ready for business opportunities, your mind is set up to get a wonderful job.

Like I said in the introduction, faith is a tool that we need to learn how to use it. The more you affirme something over and over, the more your mind start to believe that affirmation and if your mind believe it, it will surely create circumstances for you to make what you affirm a reality. You don’t necessary need to repeat to yourself the same positive phrase over and over. You can write it on paper and stick it on your refrigerator, on your bag, or wherever you can see it any times of the day. It may also be the backgroud of your computer, your smartphone or tablet.

2 Read books or listen to tapes on topic of faith

In most of my posts I used to point out the power of a good book and how it can positively make an impact on our life. Most of our challenges and setbacks even the goals that we want to realize, there is somebody else who has already gone through those difficulties and has won the battle we are fighting, succesfully. We have a goal, no problem sure enough, somebody had the same goal and has made that goal a reality. The importance of reading a book here is that there is a book or some books that talk exactly on how you can solve the problem you face. If you read that book, you will grab wisdoms, intelligence about how to solve that problem.

Most people has written books about their journey from sickness to total healing. People has written books about their journey from total lack of money, deeply debt to total abundance. There are plenty of stories of breakthrough related to each problem  that every person faces today. You know the power of a book is that the testimonies of other can inspire us, it can motivate us and push us to action. Yes, we can say that ’’ if they can do it, why not me ? Me too, I can do it.’’ You see reading books, listen to tapes is a great resource to sharpen our spirit and our soul for what we want in life.

3 Dream big

Faith has nothing to do with reality, common sens, logic. Faith means that you see the invisible as if you see it in real word. Most people only see what their eyes can perceive. It is hard and impossible for them to see the futur or look any situation through their spirit. This is the reason why dreaming big can help to train our mind to look beyong relity and step in in the invisible world, the erea of our life that makes anything happen. When you dream big, you see the end result of what you want in your life but it is not real yet. So you start to believe in your dream and to take all the actions needed to make it a reality. Note that your faith cannot be strenghened if you have lousy objectifs, what I mean is that your target is something you already see with your eyes and you can touch it.

Big dream is not necessary something related to money such as making  $1million or building a new entreprise, dream big may be believing strongly that you will be a good parent while your child is out of course. You may strongly hope that your mate with whom you separated will come back to you one day. Dream big is also strongly believing that the community that you start today with zero resource and no members will grow and will change the world…. There are different ways of dreaming big. If we want to be a person of faith and we want a good life, we have to have dreams and objectifs that are beyong our current means and power. If we want to make those dreams happen we will surely need an external help and something supernatural that I call here ‘God’.

4 Don’t curse your challenges

Faith means problems, challenges, setbacks and all kind of bad things that will surely come on your way to test your faith. Nobody can grow and become a mature person if he curses the problems that life handle to him. You have to embrace your challenges with joy and strong hope that you cannot be defeated by them. So, stop blaming your problems and start blessing them and look for solutions to overcome them by being full of strong faith that nothing can shake. I will finish this post by reminding you that faith is a spiritual asset that only grow and develop under trials. So, you want to be a person of faith, get ready for trials after trials. The only way for you to breakthrough these trials will be to trust your God and yourself. Are you ready for that ?


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“Quality of life depends on quality and quantity of happiness.”

― Debasish Mridha

Life can be boring for most people. We often see people spend all their day watching TV, playing games, spending money on bar and shopping all day long. Most of us don’t know how to use well  our valuable time and life.

Life is a great gift from God and it had to be enjoyed and well used. The truth is that less than 3% of people on the planet live a good quality of life although we have all the resources we need to enjoy our dayly life. In this article I will share with you  6 ways to live a better life.

1 Feed your mind with good quality ‘’food ‘’

Everything in our life starts with our mind and spirit. As human being we are created to consume ideas, stories, information… We shape our life with the ideas, stories and all kind of informations we consume. There are some people who don’t even know that they need to read books or listen to somethings that can build their spirit. They just go around , spend days, months even years without reading something that can build their mind and spirit.

So, to live a good quality of life, we have to be aware that we need to nourish our mind and spirit. What kind of food do we need to feed our mind with ? I think that nobody will accept to drink a poison that is created to kill mouses. Nobody will pour water in his motor’s engine and expect that engine to do well. Likewise in order to do well, our mind need a high quality of food. These foods must be made of  large quantity of ingredients such as faith, hosnesty, love, courage determination, surrending all to God, humility… If we are not naive we know that most of the information and ideas that we find on TV, radio, newspapers  even on books are bad and are not something that we can recommend  for a person who wants to live well. So what can we do ? We have to select and choose very carefully what read, what we whatch, what we listen to. We have to ask ourself if the informations that we consume on regularly basis are building us or destroying our life. We should also commit to feed our mind well on regularly basis, nobody eats physical food on irregular basis and expects to have a good health. That is the same thing with our mind. The quality of our life will suffer if we do not feed regularly our soul, our mind with  good books or whatever. Exemples of good books : Bible, Think and grow rich of Napoleon Hill, Awaken the Giant of Tony Robbins.

 2 Love people

There is no place for jealousy, envy or hate as long as we are driven by love in every moment of our life. When we display love in how we interact with our fellow, we feel good and we are in the mood that pushes us to help other and not be selffish and selfcenter.

3 Be generous

I think that we live today in a world where the need to give and to share is bigger than any moment else in the human history. With all the problems that surround each one of us I think that everybody today is called to unleash the power of generosity from the bottom of his heart. We are happy and full of pleasure when give, share and contribute. What can we give ? And to whom we can give ? Most people think that they have to give money but our world need more than money today in order to be well. Each one of us can spend time with somebody who is sick if we have decided to do so instead of watching TV or playing. Each one of us can smile to a person who need confident and self love. Anybody can volonteer for a cause that will make the world better. We can be good to somebody who is in need near our home. We don’t need to create a  foundation before we can share and give. Giving make us happy and the more it becomes our habit, the more we will enjoy our life.

4 Be excellent

We are surrounding with mediocre and the temptation to just do little and get big result is great. People want good things but they don’t want to pay the price first. They just try and put in little effort, the consequence is that they reap poor result and dissatisfaction. We cannot live well if we are just good and we do not work hard to move from being average,  from being good to excellence. Being excellent mean that we are improving every day even if it is in a very small level. We have to work very hard to upgrade our skills and our thinking ability because whether we want it or not negativity, mediocrity are there and we can be caught and destroyed by them if we do not work  hard to be excellent. Every person who wants to live an extraodinary quality of life should be improving in love, in patience, in faith, in courage, in determination, in humility, in self honesty, in his  skills or whatever else.

5 Release controle, don’t try to force things or to control everything

What I mean here is to cooperate with circumstances and situations that we cannot understand especially when things are going bad in our life. The quality of our life depend on how we deal with the unkown. How do we feel ? Are we comfortable when we take risk ? Or do we try to avoid risk at all and only try when there are no risk at all ? Or do we seek security at any cost ?

We have to understand that life is a risk and an adventure full of unknow outcomes and trying to live in security and escaping  or avoiding risk at any cost is very dangerous for us because we will feel more unsecure, fearful and we will never grow . So a good way of living is to step comfortably to the unknown circumstances, to take risk and not fear any adventure at all. Are you starting a business ? Trust yourself and your God, no fear, Are you in marriage ? Trust yourself, your partner and your God, no fear. Are you sick ? Stay full of faith, healing is possible. Are you laid off from your job ? No problem, a great opportunity is there on your way , take it and enjoy fully that moment of your life. Understand that we cannot see and understand everything in our life and the only way to live well those moment of our life is to trust our God that everything, bad or good will work for us and that we don’t need to complain or be fearful.

6 Take action

A good way of living is to be productive and full of projects, not necessary big things. We cannot live a good life if we just follow instructions from others, we have to be creative and take massive actions. Action make things happen and help us to focus our enegy on something that matters for us or maybe something that can change the world.

Life is a gift and it is up to each one of us to show our gratitude for the giver (GOD) of that gift, that we appreciate that gift by  constantly shining in our habit and judgement.

We are caught today in false judgements and thinkings that the quality of life depends on money, on car, material things, on the weather, on our husband or our wife, on economy or politics, nothing can be far from the truth. Living well is a matter of state and emotion, it comes from  inner not outside. We have to run our emotion and use whatever (good or bad) life handles to us in positive ways instead of blaming everything that is not going in our way. Nobody lives well like that. Life is wonderful and awsome, let us shine in our behaviours.


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